This article will explore the questions that can help both you and yournew partnerprotect your physical health.
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Have You Been Tested for STIs Recently?
Many of them will be wrong.
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Despite what some may think, healthcare providers do not automatically test for these infections during annual exams.
Rather, only some STI tests are recommended for certain individuals at different times.
If they can’t, they may be mistaken about having been tested.
Still, it never hurts to ask for the tests you want.
When Was Your Last HIV Test?
Human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) is an STI.
But some people, including some healthcare providers, think ofHIV testingseparately from STI testing.
This may be because of an intentional or unconscious belief that HIV only affects certain groups of people.
It may also be due to the stigma often tied to testing positive.
In general, routine HIV testing is a good idea.
Most states will test you anonymously.Free testingis available at numerous locations.
Are You Prepared to Have Safer Sex?
Be clear about communicating what your understanding of safer sex is.
However, that is not the case because oral sex can also spread STIs.
Then, confirm they acknowledge their willingness to use whatever forms of protection you better feel comfortable.
This might includeexternal condoms,internal condoms, backup contraception, and spermicide.
Do the same for your partner.
It’s wise for both of you to have these items on hand should you need them.
Are You Currently Involved With Anyone Else?
A person may have gotten STI tests and been negative, and that’s helpful to know.
An example of this is having sex with others and not practicing safer sex.
Open communication is important to maintaining your physical and emotional health.
Long-term monogamous relationships represent the lowest risk to yoursexual health.
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.Screening Recommendations and Considerations Referenced in Treatment Guidelines and Original Sources.
September 15, 2021.
