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Do People Know Theyre Being Self-Centered?
People may engage in actions that intentionally disadvantage others or do so without considering how others will be affected.
This doesn’t always work smoothly.
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Medical factors, such as a brain injury, can cause self-centeredness.
They often do not realize how their behavior impacts others.
Mental health conditions such as apersonality disordercan cause a person to behave self-centeredly without necessarily realizing it.
Self-centeredness can be accompanied by a lack of self-awareness, anger, depression, and reduced social skills.
Self-centeredness can lead to social isolation.
Selfish motivation may be related to:
Self-centered thinking and behavior can impact others as well.
Self-centered people tend to provide lower levels and less effective support to their partners.
They are less likely to address their partner’s needs.
Be aware of intentional and unintentionalmanipulative behaviorfrom the self-centered person attempting to get their way.
Be assertive and refuse to get drawn into arguments.
Psychoeducation may also be helpful to you.
The approach can depend on the cause of your self-centeredness.
Summary
Self-centeredness means focusing solely on your own needs and desires.
People may or may not be aware they are being self-centered.
Changing self-centeredness can depend on what is causing it.
If you have apersonality disorder, you may benefit from psychotherapy.
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